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Sunday, December 25, 2011
Pastor's Column Dec. 25, 2011
Pastor's Column Dec. 24, 2011
Monday, December 19, 2011
Pastor's Column Nov. 18, 2011
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Pastor's Column Dec. 11, 2011
Every year, except those when I forget, I update a secular Christmas song so it better fits the circumstances of the world in which we live. (I don’t do this with the Christmas songs in our hymnbook because they are timeless.) This year I feel that “Jingle Bells” needs updating. Riding in a one-horse open sleigh may be fun, but it is an extreme sport that most of us will never experience. Here goes:
Three months or so ago, I walked into a mall;
The stores were having Christmas sales, it was barely even fall.
Sales force was lean and lank, verboseness seemed their lot;
They gave me their best Yuletide pitch
And Wow! I bought a lot.
Oh, jingle bells, Christmas sales, cards from far away.
Oh what fun it is to sell unwanted gifts on E-Bay.
Jingle bells, tip the scales, how much do you weigh?
Fruitcake has a jillions carbs, eat some every day! - DJ
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Pastor's Column Nov. 27, 2011
The following is from a sermon given by Rev. Timothy Keller, of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in
“Christmas is frankly doctrinal (a faith position). The Bible says the invisible has become visible, the incorporeal has become corporeal, i.e., God has become human. The ideal has become real. The divine has taken up human nature.
“This is not only a specific doctrine, but it’s also unique. Doctrine always distinguishes you. One of the reasons we’re afraid to talk about doctrine is because it distinguishes us from others. Here’s why the doctrine of Christmas is unique. On the one hand you’ve got religions that say God is so imminent in all things that incarnation is normal. If you’re a Buddhist or Hindu, God is imminent in everything. God is the divine spark in everything, and therefore incarnation is normal. God is incarnate in all sorts of people and things. Christians say Jesus is the God-man, and people from that family say sure.
“On the other hand, the family of religions like Islam and Judaism says God is so transcendent over all things that incarnation is impossible. Jesus as God-man is blasphemous.
“But Christianity is unique. It doesn’t say incarnation is normal, but it doesn’t say it’s impossible. It says God is so imminent that it is possible, but he is so transcendent that the incarnation of God in the person of Jesus Christ is a universe-sundering, history-altering, life-transforming, paradigm-shattering event. Christianity has a unique view on this that sets us apart from everything else.” -DJ
Monday, November 21, 2011
PASTOR’S COLUMN (Nov. 20, 2011)
We are in the midst of a sermon series having to do with our being agents of Christ, persons through whom others can see what Jesus is like, persons who represent His interests. What do you think then of the job being done by the woman who wrote the following letter to Dear Abby?
“Dear Abby: Please answer this quickly. There is no one else I can talk to. I am a devout Christian woman, prominent in my church and have an impeccable reputation. My late husband’s family treats me with respect and generosity.
“I was unhappy when ‘Henry’ and I were married and I wanted to divorce him, but the man I was having an affair with at the time would not leave his wife for me. In spite of being devastated, I was so blessed because Henry died a short time later. I have now been free for ten years.
“I love my freedom and the relationship I have with Henry’s family. But recently I have begun to wonder if I should confide in my brother-in-law, “Rick” (who is getting a divorce), that I was unhappy enough with his brother to have had affairs much of the time we were married. It might make Rick feel better about his own ‘mess’ and possibly bring him closer to me.
“Should I open my heart to him? He thinks of me as a sister. – Unsure in Charleston, S.C.”
Abby said to not tell Rick. What amazes me is that Abby did not mention the inconsistency in this woman’s behavior, namely, that she claimed to be a devout Christian. Where is obedience to scripture in this lady’s life? We can’t be agents of Jesus and behave in any manner we please. - DJ
Monday, November 14, 2011
Pastor's Column Nov. 13, 2011
PASTOR’S COLUMN. Centuries ago, a scholar on his way to church was surprised to see a man in tattered clothes and barefoot. Nevertheless, as a good Christian, he greeted the poor man: “May God give you a good morning!”
The poor man replied cheerfully, “I have never yet had a bad morning.”
“Then may God give you good luck!”
“I have never yet had bad luck.”
“Well, may God give you happiness!”
“I have never yet been unhappy.”
The scholar then asked the man, “Could you please explain? I don’t understand.”
“Certainly,” said the man. “You wish me a good morning, yet I have never had a bad morning. For when I am hungry, I praise God; when I feel cold, or when it’s raining or snowing, I praise God; and that is why I’ve never had a bad morning.
“You wish that God may give me luck. However, I have never had bad luck. This is because I live with God and always feel what he does for me is the best. Whatever God sends me, be it pleasant or unpleasant, I accept with a grateful heart. That is why I have never had bad luck.
“Finally, you wish that God should make me happy. But I have never been unhappy. For all I desire is to follow God’s will; I have surrendered my will so totally to God’s will that, whatever God wants, that is what I also want. That is why I have never been unhappy.” - Attributed to Meister Eckhart – D.J.
Sunday, November 6, 2011
Pastor's Column Nov. 6, 2011
Pastor’s Column. Jesus teaches that everything we have belongs to God. It’s not ours. We don’t own it. We are simply stewards or managers of what has been entrusted to us by God.
Spiritual growth, then, has to do with how this belief gives shape to our lives over time. As time passes are we growing in our ability to give to Jesus’ work of building up the kingdom of God? Are we becoming better managers of what God has given us? Are we willing to make sacrifices so we can better serve Jesus?
Spiritual growth as it pertains to financial giving is measurable. The Presbyterian Church calls this measure of growth percentage giving, and it is very simple. What percentage of your income did you give last year? Take this year’s income and attempt to increase your giving by a percent or more beyond last year’s. The percentage growth represents spiritual growth unless giving this amount upsets you or makes you mad. Remember 2 Corinthians 9:7, “Each of you must give as you have made up your mind, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”
Other factors obviously enter into the struggle to grow spiritually via financial giving. A person can make a special one-time gift to the church (which isn’t to be matched again), or one can lose significant income, or one can experience catastrophic bills, or whatever. Life is a not always the same one year to the next. Sometimes we have to go back to square one and do the best we can. Yet, if we say we are growing spiritually, but have nothing to demonstrate how, are we really? James states it so well, “By what I do, not by what I say, I’ll show you my faith.” - DJ
Sunday, October 30, 2011
Pastor's Column Oct. 30, 2011
Pastor’s Column. Tomorrow is Halloween. The big question in the commercials is, “Who will you be?” In Ephesians 4, Paul tells us to put away our former way of life and put on the new self, created according to the likeness of God. How’s that for being someone!
Many people want to be a monster for Halloween, the scarier the better. There are commentators who think that the worst kind of monsters don’t take away life in an instant. They suck away our souls over time. What kind of monsters are these? A controlling parent. A nagging wife. An abusive husband. An insensitive boss. A gossip. A joyless pastor. A busybody. And the list goes on to include other relationships. Such people need to go to monster rehab instead of the Halloween Party. And we can all of us become such drains ourselves. It is very easy to put on our old ways of life. So, “Who will you be?” -DJ
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Pastor's Column Oct. 16, 2011
For the past two years Grace’s expenses have been ca. $186,000,
and its revenues ca $151,000. This annual deficit of $35,000 has been taken out of a reserve fund that will dry up in 2012 if we continue using it at this rate. Should the reserve fund be exhausted, we will have to make cuts of an unpopular nature. The Budget is bare bones now. There is not much that can be cut without drastically changing the staff and programs in place.
The session hopes that cuts will be unnecessary. In fact, the session thinks that the friends and members of Grace can make up this deficit if we just will. In a recent letter to the congregation from the Stewardship Committee, it was asked that we increase what we’ve been giving by 10% in 2012. This would cover about half the deficit, but we also need those who have not been giving in a disciplined way to help. In this day and age “doing church” requires the contributions of all involved.
Indeed, what is financial stewardship? It is a relationship between the individual and Jesus Christ. Each of us responds to the love of Jesus Christ by what we give.
Financial stewardship is a percentage of income, which is biblical, the tithe. Researchers have found in recent years that if church members do not intentionally tie their giving to percentage of income, they wind up giving an amount that turns out to be 1.5% of income. If they intentionally tie giving to percentage of income, they give on average 4.7%, or three times as much.
Financial stewardship is one of the ways we grow in faith. If one cannot give a tithe at the present time, there is integrity in giving as large a percentage as possible and trying to increase this over time.
Our financial commitment to Jesus Christ will be reported on the 2012 Commitment Card, which will be distributed soon. What can you do to help Grace continue the work of Jesus Christ in 2012? -DJ
Monday, October 10, 2011
Pastor's Column Oct. 9, 2011
If we have a positive attitude – and pray for a positive attitude, God gives if we will just take delivery - we have a head start when it comes to overcoming fear of the unknown, as well as a head start when it comes to overcoming stress about things we cannot control. With a positive attitude we better deal with anger over our situation and better handle guilt over what could have been but is no more. And the basis for such a positive attitude is Romans 8:31, “If God is for us, who can be against us?”
“If God is for us, who can be against us,” means that we draw on unparalleled spiritual resources when we’re trying to be faithful, for no less than God is for us, God’s grace is with us. Now this does not mean that what we’re up against is a piece of cake. It does mean that we rise to the challenge. - DJ
Monday, October 3, 2011
Pastor's Column Oct. 2, 2011
“But not anymore. ‘We are losing the notion of sin,’ Pope Benedict XVI warns. The culture celebrates what it once sanctioned: parents encourage pride as essential to self-esteem; a group of self-rising French chefs has petitioned the Vatican that being a gourmand is no sin. Envy is the engine of tabloid culture. Lust is an advertising strategy; anger, the righteous province of the aggrieved…”
The Vatican has begun stressing a broader range of sins for the modern age. I think that Mohandas Gandhi, of all persons, had a great version of the seven deadly sins:
- Wealth without work - Politics without principle
- Pleasure without conscience - Commerce without morality
- Science without humanity - Worship without sacrifice
- Knowledge without character
-DJ
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Pastor’s Column Sept. 25, 2011
First, Jesus taught his disciples differently. Whereas other rabbis relied heavily on the teachings of rabbis in times past, Jesus relied largely on his own authority. For ex., the Sermon on the Mount ends with, “When Jesus finished saying these things, the crowds were astounded at his teachings, for he taught them as one having authority, and not as their scribes.” Mt. 7: 28, 29.
Second, Jesus’ relationship to his disciples was different. That of other rabbis to their disciples was temporary. After a learning period, other disciples “graduated” and were called “rabbi” themselves. Not so with Jesus. He said, “But you are not to be called rabbi, for you have one teacher, and you are all students… Nor are you to be called instructors, for you have one instructor, the Messiah (Jesus).” Mt. 23:8, 10.
Third, Jesus shared with his disciples differently than other rabbis. They shared their wisdom. Jesus shared both his wisdom and his power. “Abide in me as I abide in you. Just as the branch cannot bear fruit by itself unless it abides in the vine, neither can you unless you abide in me. I am the vine, you are the branches. Those who abide in me and I in them bear much fruit, because apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15: 4,5
Jesus could speak with authority because a true understanding of God’s nature had been granted him. Our opportunity is to learn from him about God which is a never-ending process. We never graduate, never arrive at a point when we don’t need Jesus’ support, correction, and guidance. And Jesus strengthens us to serve him and enjoy the benefits of being his followers in the circumstances of our lives.
This relationship with God through Jesus is what we desire for all others. Something to think about on this Evangelism Sunday. -DJ
Sunday, September 18, 2011
Pastor’s Column Sept. 18, 2011
Saturday, Oct. 1. FPC has been invited to join with us in the Fall Festival.
Sunday, Oct. 2. FPC will join us at Grace to celebrate World Communion
Sunday.
Sunday, Oct. 23. Rev. Bill Charlton of FPC will fill in for me inasmuch as I’ll be
giving a presentation, “The Imagination of Fred Harvey” at the University of
NM Continuing Ed. and to the Friends of the Roswell Library.
Thursday, Nov. 24. Volunteers from Grace will join with FPC in cooking and
serving a Thanksgiving dinner to those in need - this at FPC.
FPC’s last Sunday of worship. Grace will not have worship here that day. We will go to FPC and celebrate with them 130 years of service. At this point, we have no idea when this will be.
I urge everyone to be most welcoming of all from FPC, remembering that this is a sad time for them, and that they have much yet to offer in Christ’s service.
- DJ
Monday, September 12, 2011
Pastor’s Column Sept. 11. 2011
Take, for example, advertising. So that we will buy “stuff”, we are bombarded day in and day out with cutesy slogans and enticing pictures. And have you noticed how much advertising has to do with food?
Obesity is a killer, but how many corporations selling food, especially fast-food, care? Over the past ten or fifteen years I have lost 40 pounds. I know how hard it is to lose weight and keep it off. People need some help and support in attaining and maintaining a healthy body weight. Do they get it? Rarely.
Processed food corporations advertise on Saturday morning TV in an attempt to “hook” children on their products. They use kid-friendly personalities such as Shrek to endorse grease and sugar. They talk about their products in term of a “nag factor,” i.e., how much will a kid nag his/her parents to get this snack food. The higher the nag factor, the better the product.
The Center for Disease Control recently published the fact that obesity rates have doubled for adults and tripled for children over the last 20 years. One reason is that portion sizes have ballooned. Twenty years ago bagels were (on average) 3-inch diameter, 140 calories. Today they’re more like 6-inch, 350 calories. Fast-food cheeseburgers were 333 calories, today 590 calories. Soda in 12 oz. cans was sold in vending machines. Today you can rarely find anything other than 20 oz. bottles of soda, an increase in calories of 66%. French fries of 2.4 oz. gives you 210 calories; 6.9 oz., 610 calories.
It’s hard to be “in the world but not of the world” when you are surrounded by temptation. In the Bible such a situation is a call for holiness, holy meaning devoted to God and not the world. “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, which you have from God, that you are not your own. For you were bought with a price; therefore glorify God in your body.” 1 Corinthians 6: 19,20 -DJ
Monday, September 5, 2011
Pastor's Column Sept. 5, 2011
We were pleasantly surprised by the tone of the meeting. The leaders were not interested in being angry or in name-calling. They were most forthcoming about their plans, and they had options for all congregations to consider. Here are three.
The first option is, “Most congregations will want to stay with the denomination, and that’s fine. You still have the right to determine whom you ordain as elders and deacons, as well as whom you call as a pastor. So long as your presbytery doesn’t hinder your ministry, why leave?” This is what I’ve been saying all along. There are individuals at Grace who might choose to leave the congregation and denomination, and we’ll miss them, but I know no one who would want Grace to leave.
A second option, which will be taken by a number of churches if it is approved by the General Assembly next summer, is this: a congregation will become a member of two denominations. One will be the PCUSA, as is the case now, but the other will be a New Reformed Denomination yet to be formed. Actually, it is on the drawing board. This way a congregation can say that its beliefs conform to the New Denomination (Essential Tenets of the Reformed Faith), while it still supports and engages in certain mission work with the PCUSA.
A third option, but only for those churches who are on the outs with the PCUSA, is to leave the denomination now, which likely would involve going to secular court with the presbytery as to whom owns the building. This process-of-last-resort can be drawn out and costly. Most PCUSA congregations that have left thus far have joined a denomination called the Evangelical Presbyterian Church. -DJ
Monday, August 29, 2011
Pastor's Column Aug. 28
I thought of this the other night at Music in the Park. Norville Dollar invited a lady from the audience to come up and sing a song. I didn’t catch the lady’s name, but she was an entertainer herself and did a good job singing the old Patti Page song, “Tennessee Waltz.”
What was the first song you remember singing? One of the first one I remember singing as a child was “Tennessee Waltz.” I sang along with Patti Page on the radio. A couple of years later I liked another of her songs even better, “How Much is That Doggie in the Window.”
Patti Page was the “Singing Rage” in the 1950s. Even when music changed in the sixties and seventies and eighties she kept on singing.
Five or so years ago I was recording a church ad at a radio station in Albuquerque. As I was walking out, I held the door open for a lady who was coming in the station. I didn’t think anything about it until a few minutes later when I tuned in to that same radio station on my way back to the church. I had held the door open for Patti Page!
She was doing a concert in the Santa Fe area, and the station asked her to drop by for an interview. She was in her late seventies at the time. If I had “remembered” to look at the programming log on the studio wall, I would have known she was coming in and could have thanked her for the “Waltz.” I might have even asked her if she had any free tickets to her concert. -DJ
Monday, August 22, 2011
Pastor's Column August 21, 2011
Such a question and follow-up are not Christian in origin. To “do something about it” implies that that we can change simply by the exertion of willpower to a different life. Sure, we can change some things, but many we can’t. We can’t change a chronic illness, we can’t change the immediate effects of the recession, and we shouldn’t break those commitments by which others rely on us. Plus life happens. No sooner might one get to the point of liking his/her life than circumstances change yet again.
Perhaps a better question is, “If you had the ability to live your life again, would you make the same choices that you are making now?” And the follow-up, “Why are you making the choices you’re making now?” And a follow-up to that, “Are there choices that you could make differently?”
Joshua confronts his idolatrous people with a choice that they can make and one that makes a big difference. “Choose this day whom you will serve…As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” (Joshua 24: 14,15) -DJ
Monday, August 15, 2011
Pastor’s Column. August 14, 2011
There was a second group the Bible calls “the crowd,” people who by and large didn’t get it. At times Jesus was besieged by crowds of people, hundreds even thousands of people, as was the case along the shore of Lake Galilee when Jesus gave the Sermon on the Mount. But many of these people came out to see miracles or hear only what they wanted to hear. Jesus eventually disappointed many of them and they left, which is still the case today. If Jesus doesn’t do what some people expect him to do, they quit.
The third group of disciples were men and women and children who could not be with Jesus all the time as were the Twelve. From Jesus’ point of view, there simply wasn’t room around the campfire. Twelve were as many as he could live with at such an intimate level. And from the view of this third bunch of disciples, they couldn’t leave their families and work and be with Jesus constantly. Still, they didn’t fall away. They were drawn to him and his message, and so at times they would gather to hear his teachings and witness his healings and be of whatever service to him they could. -DJ
Sunday, August 7, 2011
Pastor's Column Aug. 7, 2011
Jordan died at age 38 in 1889, his wife died three months later. They left five boys and one girl. One son, Albert Bond “Doc” Lambert became infatuated with flying. In 1926, he rounded up some pals to help their buddy Slim Lindbergh buy an airplane to fly the Atlantic in 1927. One son, Jerry, went to Princeton and blew through what would be $15.9 million in today’s dollars. Deeply in debt, he went back to St. Louis in 1908 to work at the company’s firm.
In 1922 Jerry Lambert learned that the medical term for bad breath was halitosis. That gave him an idea. He would turn halitosis into a national scourge for which Listerine was the cure. Money began pouring in. Jerry took Lambert Pharmacal public in 1928, retired at 42, and got out of the stock market before the crash of 1929.
Today’s sermon has to do with “The Dishonest Manager,” Luke 16: 1-10. We don’t know what the manager did that initially led to his boss firing him, but was it any worse than creating “a national scourge” out of halitosis? Probably was. Still, there was a time when Jerry Lambert would be called dishonest. Today he’s regarded as a marketing genius. Which one do you think it is ? -DJ
Monday, August 1, 2011
Pastor's Column July 31, 2011
The King James Version has given us phrases we use even today: Eat , drink, and be merry, Lk. 12:19…the apple of his eye, Deut. 32: 10… an eye for an eye, Mt. 5: 38… it came to pass, Gen. 38:27…fight the good fight, 1 Tim. 6: 12… fell flat on his face, Num 22: 31… the fullness of time, Gal. 4:4… can a leopard change his spots, Jer. 13: 23… am I my brother’s keeper, Gen. 4:9
Other phrases and sentences from the KJV that have formed out thinking include: God’s care for us, “The Lord is my shepherd,” Ps. 23:1… Freedom from slavery, “Let my people go!” Exod. 5:1… a life wasted in worries over unimportant things, “vanity of vanities,” Eccles. 1:2…a self-righteous person, “holier than thou,” Is. 65:5… work that you adore, “a labor of love,” 1 Thess. 1:3…a metaphor for Christ-like influence, “the salt of the earth,” Mt. 5:13… a metaphor against in-fighting, “A house divided against itself shall not stand,” Mt. 12:25… Our relationship to truth, “We see through a glass darkly,” 1 Cor. 13:12… what we say when a politician’s dirty secrets are revealed, “How are the mighty fallen,” 2 Sam. 1:27… a really close call, “With the skin of my teeth,” Job 19:20.
Published in 1611, the KJV was the most popular Bible in the world from ca. 1670 to 1985, more than 300 years. – DJ (thanks to Jon Sweeney, Christian Century, July 12, 2011)
PASTOR’S COLUMN July 24, 2011
If you look on p. 698, you will find #4 -How Great Thou Art - by the name Stuart Hine. Gustav Boburg, a Swede, wrote a poem called “O Store Gud” (literally “O Great God”) in 1885. Stuart Hine (1899-1989) was born in England but spent much of his early adult life as a missionary to the Western Ukraine of Russia. He translated and arranged the English words of this poem to the Swedish folk song to which the song was traditionally sung. He did this in 1953.
The Billy Graham Crusade is largely responsible for introducing this hymn to America, where it has experienced great popularity. But repeatedly “How Great Thou Art” has also been voted the most popular hymn of Great Britain.
Kenneth Osbeck, an American hymnologist, once said, “This great hymn teaches three essential truths: the greatness of God’s creation, the greatness of Christ’s redemption, and the greatness of our future inheritance.” -DJ
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Pastor’s Column July 17, 2011
In fulfillment of these two commandments, one way of thinking about worship involves the use of a bicycle wheel. When we come to worship, we are located on the rim of the wheel, and God is at the hub. As worship progresses we move along a spoke so that we’re drawn closer and closer to God. But as we move closer to God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, we also move closer and closer to others, who are on their spokes moving toward the hub.
This is a great understanding of what is to take place in worship, for too often people who love Jesus don’t seem to have much use for others of his followers. 1 John 2: 9-11 deals with what happen when congregational members say they love God but don’t love one another. “Whoever says, ‘I am in the light,’ (of Jesus) while hating a brother or sister, is still in the darkness. Whoever loves a brother or sister lives in the light (of Jesus), and in such a person, there is no cause for stumbling. But whoever hates another believer is in the darkness, walks in the darkness, and does not know the way to go, because the darkness has brought on blindness. -DJ
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Pastor's Column July 10, 2011
1) An assimilation committee will soon begin the work of formulating an Assimilation Plan. There are three members on this committee from each session – Carolyn Pruneau, Bill Sternberg, and Bob Aucutt from ours; Ann Brooks, Matt Bungenstock, and Mark Bungenstock from First. The presbytery will also provide four members for this committee.
2) This committee will work out a variety of concerns, including the future of FPC’s building. At this point, both sessions want to keep it open as a community center, under the control of Grace’s session, a continuation of FPC’s historic ministry to the community.
3) During the next several weeks or months there will be opportunities for get-togethers with FPC so we might get to know one another. Presently FPC lists 30 members.
4) After the committee comes up with the Assimilation Plan, it will be presented to both congregations for a vote yea or nay.
5) If both votes are positive, then FPC ceases to exist. Pastor Bill Charlton will retire at that point, and their bank accounts will be transferred to Grace. FPC’s members have the choice of becoming members of Grace or not.
First Presbyterian Festus was our mother church when Grace became a congregation many years ago. It is fitting that we assimilate at this point in time. -DJ
Sunday, July 3, 2011
Pastor's Colum July 3, 2011
We might think that words constituting a curse would be obvious, but we can also curse a person, in effect, by not having our facts straight.
An example. My novel, Summer of Champions, is set against the background of a real-life event, namely, an All-star team from my hometown winning the 10th Little League World Series in Williamsport. After the book came out, a sportswriter sought my help in gathering information for a New Mexico Magazine article he was writing about this team on the 50th anniversary of their successful season. I met him in my hometown and introduced him to a few of the guys who had been on the team.
Among the questions asked by the sportswriter was how many team members
were deceased. Years earlier, at their 25th reunion, it had been established that three had died. One, David Sherrod, had died of wounds received in Vietnam. The sportswriter mentioned in his article that three of the team members were deceased and gave their names.
Eighteen months after the magazine article was published, the following appeared in the Mailbag section of New Mexico Magazine: “My name is David H. Sherrod, third baseman for that team, and I am indeed not dead, killed in Vietnam, or any other form of possible demise.”
It is a mystery how every other player on the team could think for more than a quarter of a century that David had been killed. The sportswriter and I certainly felt bad about contributing to this curse, but we were glad that David is a forgiving person. “I hold no feelings of wrongdoing toward…the author of the article. I just wanted to set the record straight.”
Our facts need to be straight. Otherwise, our words may constitute a curse by going along with no more than rumors or stereotypes, both of which can deny persons the good God intends for them. -DJ
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Pastor's Column June 26, 2011
One hospice patient felt he had nothing to pass on to his family because he had lost all his money, but a chaplain helped him write an ethical will. All of a sudden his life and legacy had meaning. Indeed, many elderly people, regardless of finances, see lifestyles nowadays that are much different from theirs. And they don’t want to dictate from the grave, but they want to make their witness to what they think is right.
Some concerns about writing an ethical will:
- What do you want your loved ones to know about your family history?
- What is your vision for your heirs’ use of their inheritance?
- Have you made mistakes for which you want to ask forgiveness? Or is there forgiveness you want to offer?
- Why have you made certain decisions about your estate, such as donating a portion of it to your church?
What are the values and life lessons you’d like to share concerning God, education, the workplace, marriage, parenting, etc.? There may be some inquiring minds that would be very blessed to know. - DJ
Sunday, June 19, 2011
Pastor's Column June 19, 2011
A man’s wife came down with cancer. At first she responded with fear and depression. But then she had an experience of God that led her to say, “Today I do not pray for a cure for myself. I pray that God will help someone find a cure for cancer so that the thousands who come after me will profit and benefit from that cure.” She herself had only one desire and that was to live as fully one day at a time as she could. Her last act was to ask her husband for a paper and pencil. He thought she wanted to write her will. Instead, she wrote down simple recipes he could use to feed their children.
And don’t you imagine that violinist Philippe Quint’s dad felt like he had received an incredible present? Philippe left his 285-year old Stradivarius in a taxi on a ride home from the Newark Airport. (This in spite of his dad telling him time and time again not to carry a violin case in New Jersey. “People will think you’re a gangster!”) Cabbie, Mohamed Khalil, discovered the $4million instrument and returned it to Quint. This not only made Philippe’s dad ecstatic that he didn’t have to shell out for another, but made Philippe so happy that performed a free lunchtime concern for 200 New Jersey cabbies.
Ties and golf paraphernalia aren’t the only gifts that fathers treasure. -DJ
Sunday, June 12, 2011
PASTOR’S COLUMN June 12, 2011
“When the day of Pentecost had come, they were all together in one place. And suddenly from heaven there came a sound like the rush of a violent wind, and it filled the entire house where they were sitting. Divided tongues, as of fire, appeared among them, and a tongue rested on each of them. All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other languages, as the Spirit gave them ability.” Acts 2:1-4
And not just them. Ever since Pentecost believers have received this gift of God-dwelling-within to provide us with guidance, courage, comfort, hope, and peace. From Pentecost on, the influence of Jesus was not limited to the few who had been with him throughout his earthly days. Now everyone could know the healing, saving presence of Christ.
“There were devout Jews from every nation under heaven living in Jerusalem. And at this sound the crowd gathered and was bewildered, because each one heard them speaking in the native language of each. Amazed and astonished, they asked, “Are not all these who are speaking Galileans? And how is it that we hear, each of us, in our own language?” Acts 2: 5-8
It was as if disciples who spoke only English suddenly had the power to speak about what God had done through Jesus in the languages of French, German, Spanish, Italian, etc. The church of Jesus Christ knows no national boundaries.
“’Brothers, what should we do?” the crowd asked. Peter said to them, ‘Repent, and be baptized everyone of you in the name of Jesus Christ so that your sins may be forgiven; and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.’”-Acts 2: 37, 38
On Pentecost ordinary men and women were filled with faith and became courageous witnesses to God’s salvation in Jesus Christ. It was a dangerous time to depart from the accepted beliefs of the day, but his followers were changed people. -DJ
Sunday, June 5, 2011
Pastor's Column June 5, 2011
The second observation had to do with cows and sheep. Cows can be herded because they act in predictable ways. Cows will shy away from someone waving a stick at them, but they know enough not to get overly concerned about the stick. They don’t panic easily.
Sheep are not smart enough to herd. They have to be led because sheep panic easily. To handle sheep, the shepherd has to condition them to trust and follow. For their safety and survival sheep have to rely on their relationship with the shepherd. It is easy to see why Jesus identifies himself as the Good Shepherd rather than the Good Cowboy. “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.” Psalm 23.
But to the credit of sheep, they know exactly who their shepherd is. In Israel, two shepherds and their flocks may share the shelter of a cave at night. The next morning, each shepherd stands outside as the sheep emerge from the cave. Within just a few minutes the each flock is gathered by its shepherd, ready to follow him to pasture. -DJ
Monday, May 30, 2011
Pastor's Column May 29, 2011
It seems to me that if we live by this saying we don’t have to get so upset with those who slight us in some way. We can take it in stride as opposed to going ballistic.
We don’t have to get mad at customer service representatives who mistreat us. Maybe they’re just having a bad day. Or maybe they truly are rude or inept at what they’re doing, but why should we allow it to ruin our day? What kind of people are we when we get upset about inconsequential matters?
Of course, if the person who slights us is a person with whom we have dealings daily as opposed to once in a life time, and if the insults are routine, we may need to point out to the person what he or she is doing and how we feel about it. Jesus isn’t telling us here to be a doormat.
Indeed, what’s the context for this teaching? “If anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also,” is preceded by, “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, do not respond in kind.” (My translation)
Jesus is giving us a better way of handling insults than responding in kind. Take it in stride. Walk away from it. Forget and forgive. Choose the better way.-DJ
Sunday, May 22, 2011
PASTOR’S COLUMN (May 22, 2011)
This O-versight reminds me of another wardrobe malfunction. Two seminaries, the Southern Baptists and the Roman Catholics, were playing each other in an intramural baseball game. Both teams took the field without knowing that the jerseys of one team said, “BATISTS,” while those of the other said, “CATOLICS.”
Assuming that the baseball uniforms had been sewn in another country, one where English wasn’t the primary language, one can see the logic. Many countries, no matter what the people speak, listen to old-timey Rock & Roll. People know the song about the famous baseball player, “Bat, bat Leroy Brown, the batist man in the whole downtown…” They also know the word “cat,” and thus it makes sense that “Catolics” are people whose team mascot is Garfield.
By the way, the game between the BATISTS and CATOLICS was called after three innings, the score 0-0, due to a downpour. The local newspaper said that the rainstorm was “an act oPH God.” – D.J.
Sunday, May 15, 2011
PASTOR’S COLUMN (May 13, 2011)
In any event, the session of Grace authorized the purchase of an AED (Automated External Defibrillator), and the Men of the Church have now hung it on the wall by the bulletin board in the hallway to the sanctuary.
In this location it is convenient to the sanctuary, the classrooms upstairs, and to Fellowship Hall by either the elevator or the stairway.
The procedure is amazingly simple. If a person collapses, bystanders should call 911 immediately. Person A should race to the AED cabinet and bring the AED to near the head of the collapsed person. Person B should have immediately gone to the person on the ground or floor to see if he/she is breathing. If they are, wait for the ambulance. (Maybe place the person on his/her side in the recovery position.) If they are not breathing, Person B (or someone knowledgeable) should begin chest compressions (2-inches deep) immediately and at the rate of about 100/minute.
If you are in the role of Person B, and you know how to blow air into the person’s lungs, you can certainly do so as you alternate with the chest compressions. But the big thing is to keep the chest compressions going until medical personnel arrive or the AED arrives. Authorities are now saying that there is enough air inside a person without blowing any more in, although we certainly may. What’s more important is to keep the blood flowing with heart compressions.
The AED is simple to operate. After it is placed over the person’s chest, it will tell us if the person’s heart needs to be shocked.
The session purchased the AED in an attempt to save lives in our building and on
our grounds. -DJ
Monday, May 9, 2011
Pastor's Column May 8, 2011
Lynn W. Huber says, “I believe that the greatest gift we can offer to each other is the telling of and listening to our stories.” This helps us see our connection to others, helps us make sense of our own lives, and strengthens by seeing how it is with others. Jean Bolen says, “The stories people tell have a way of taking care of them. If stories come to you, care for them. And learn to give them away where they are needed. Sometimes a person needs a story more than food to stay alive.”
And here’s a concern for those of us who missed out on certain stories from our moms. It comes from Katie Wiebe. “What makes the journey into old age terrifying to me is that I hear no one beyond the middle years inviting me urgently and loudly to cross the border because of its splendid advantages.” Katie goes on to say that a child has admiring fans in parents, siblings, and friends who help her cross into adulthood. But the older one gets, the fewer the number of people telling her how they’ve dealt with certain stages of life. Almost no one helps us cross into the land of the aging by telling their story.
Katie Wiebe then visited the Soviet Union, the place of her family origin. Upon her return she reported, “I returned with countless stories people told me about their lives. I came back with a renewed sense of the importance of story, especially for older adults. Stories bind the generations together. Stories bring to light dense abstractions. Stories show the pattern of living. Stories assert boldly, ‘I am a human being.’”
One last thought, moms, and this from Isak Dineson. “All the sorrows of life are bearable if only we can convert them into a story.” Don’t let your story or your family’s story go untold to your kids. -DJ
Sunday, May 1, 2011
PASTOR’S COLUMN May 1, 2011
Little Egbert was on the lookout for that Treasure Egg. He ran as fast as his legs could take him in hopes of finding that egg-shaped container with the chocolate bunny inside. He searched and he searched until he noticed something golden over beneath the root of a cottonwood tree. Could it be? Yes it could! It was the large, golden, plastic egg-shaped container, buried in the dirt so that you could see just a bit of the golden plastic; buried so deeply that little Egbert had to find a stick to dig the egg out of the ground. As he dug he did not notice how tarnished and dirty the gold plastic was.
If he had, he might have realized that this was the Treasure Egg that hadn’t been found at last year’s Easter egg hunt. Nor did he notice the crack in the plastic that had allowed water to seep inside, so that after being exposed to the melting summer heat, and then frozen during the winter, the bunny had changed into the shape of a walrus swimming in a pool of muddy water. Its ears had melted and frozen and become the walrus’ tail; and its feet had become tusks. That’s what little Egbert found when he opened that year-old plastic egg container, the most disgusting-looking piece of chocolate he could have imagined. It was so gross that he gave it to his sister. “Here, look what I got for you. Happy Easter!” -DJ
Sunday, April 24, 2011
PASTOR’S COLUMN. Easter April 24, 2011
On this Easter we would do well to listen to Romans 6: 3-6. “Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? Therefore we have been buried with him by baptism into death, so that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life. For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly be united with him in a resurrection like his. We know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be destroyed, and that we might no longer be enslaved to sin.”
Jesus’ crucifixion and resurrection bring into question our pace of life. Why are we so enslaved to things we think we have to have or do? Hasn’t God given us this life, and aren’t we responsible to God for how we live it? We live for an Audience of One, not many. Jesus lived out the freedom God gives us. He refused to be restricted by the lesser expectations placed on him, and the religious establishment had him crucified. But God raised him from death, vindicating his way of life and the truth of his message. Today we celebrate not just his victory over death, but the possibility of our walking in newness of life with him. -DJ
Sunday, April 17, 2011
Pastor's Column April 17, 2011
The dad in this book and movie, who is a Presbyterian pastor, has a saying, “All good things come by grace, and grace comes by art, and art does not come easy.”
“All good things come by grace.” All that we have, all that we are, even the brain with which we think thoughts about God, comes by God’s grace. God gives us good things, not because we deserve them, but because it’s God’s nature to constantly seek our wellbeing.
In The Lord’s Prayer, when Jesus teaches us that God’s nature is that of Our Father, he means that God values each and every human being and provides for our needs, as would the best of parents.
“And grace comes by art.” Just because God seeks our wellbeing doesn’t mean that we always do. Availing ourselves of God’s grace is not natural. There is an art to recognizing both what God gives and then accepting it.
“And art does not come easy.” We’re a mess, says the dad in A River Runs Through It. Not only is recognizing and accepting God’s grace an art, but it is one that we’ve pretty much lost. Too often we ignore or reject or do not notice how God helps meet our needs. Too often what we choose is self-destructive rather than the good that God makes possible.
A follower of Jesus knows that God’s grace is the source of all she has and is. Further, she is a person who, by God’s grace, is struggling to grow in her ability to recognize and receive all the good gifts God has in store for her. - DJ
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Pastor's Column April 10, 2011
1. I believe in God the Father Almighty, Maker of heaven and earth... The Apostles’ Creed is very old. It comes from a time when “Almighty” was a name commonly associated with the God of the Old Testament. To say that we believe in God the “Father Almighty” is to say that the Creator is the same as the God of the New Testament, inasmuch as the name Jesus used for God was “Father.” Whereas the sermon here at Grace is based on both an Old Testament and New Testament lesson, long ago there was a debate in which one side said that the God of the OT was a lesser deity than the God in the NT. No, says the Apostles’ Creed. They are one and the same.
2. Was crucified, dead and buried; he descended into hell, (hades in Greek, the abode of the dead without the temperature differential ). At least two things are being said by “descent into hell.” One is that Jesus actually died. Some people through the years said it only appeared like he did. No, he actually died, says the creed, and one way of emphasizing death is by this statement. Also, this is an interpretation of 1 Peter 3:18,19. While dead, Jesus, “in the spirit,” went to the people in hades/hell (“the spirits in prison”) and preached the good news so that those who died before he lived could be saved.
3. The holy catholic(universal) Church, the communion of saints (Christians). What this says is that we belong to the body of Jesus’ followers through all ages and in all places. Catholic here does not mean Roman Catholic. It means the “universal” church of all times and places. We belong to the universal church, have communion with all other Christians. Saints here is just another name for Christians. -DJ
Sunday, April 3, 2011
Pastor's Column April 3, 2011
The congregation responded, “No.”
“Neither do I,” he said. He then picked up his notes, walked off the platform, and exited the church.
The next week he was invited back. Again he asked the congregation, “Do you know what I’m going to say?”
Since their previous response hadn’t worked, they said, “Yes!”
“Good,” the clown said. “Then I don’t have to tell you.” Again he exited the church without another word.
During the following week the congregation got together and planned their response. They were confident they had him trapped. When he stood up a third time and asked, “Do you know what I’m going to say?” they replied, “Some of us do and some of us don’t.”
“Good!” Nasir Ed Din replied. “Those who know tell those who don’t.” He left the building for a third time and was never invited back.
Churches need to be careful whom they invite to speak. A Methodist church recently invited their bishop to speak at a fellowship dinner. And since it was the bishop who was speaking, everyone brought their best dishes. Rarely had anyone in that church seen so much food.
In walked the bishop. The pastor greeted him and asked what the bishop was speaking about that night.
“Fasting during Lent.” -DJ
Sunday, March 27, 2011
PASTOR’S COLUMN (March 27, 2011)
Our tasks sort into three piles – finished, not finished, and probably-won’t-ever-be-finished – with the third category the largest. There are things that we routinely finish because our lives won’t work if we don’t. “But the tasks that overwhelm us are the ones that may never be finished: the broken relationship between mother and son; the tension between work and family, home and church; the priorities that keep shifting and defying tidy categories.
“Allen suggests we address those undecided, unmanaged tasks in what he calls weird time.” Weird time consists of only a few minutes, like the 15 free minutes before we have to leave home for a meeting or the 6 minutes between appoint-ments. In weird time we accept that there are tasks we may never get tidied up and finished, still we choose to do what we can. In weird time we can grab the phone and say, “I hope you are having a good day.” Or we can do something, catch up a bit, in an area of our life in which we’re always behind.
“But the most important thing you can do with your five minutes of weird time is to ask God to give you a new time table, God’s timetable.” Trust that God can do amazing things in our lives whether we finish our work, are behind in our work, or won’t ever be finished with the tasks on our To-Do List. Ours is to be faithful. - DJ
Sunday, March 20, 2011
Pastor's Column March 20, 2011
Two, we are agents of Jesus Christ. An agent is always responsible to the home office, as would be a life insurance or a real estate agent. But an agent is free to determine how to conduct his/her agency. Where and how we serve God is ours to determine, we have the freedom and we have the wisdom. But whether it’s as a parent or on the job or as a retiree or as a volunteer in church, we’re responsible to God for how and what we do.
So here’s a thought for Lent. If as agents we have determined where and how we are going to serve God, let’s give up anything that interferes. For ex., maybe our schedule is so cluttered with non-essential matters that we should clear it and focus on what’s important. Or if we have determined where and how we’re going to serve God, maybe we should try to improve, say, get more training.
And if we haven’t determined where and how we are going to serve God, maybe we ought to devote some serious thought and prayer to determining our identity as agents of Jesus Christ. –D.J.
Sunday, March 13, 2011
PASTOR’S COLUMN (March 13, 2011)
Witness more effectively,
Think more clearly,
Feel more deeply,
Listen more insightfully,
Speak more truthfully,
Love more extravagantly,
Care more soulfully,
Serve more creatively,
Give more lavishly,
Encourage more lovingly,
Live more fully,
Teach more eloquently,
Give more generously.
Something to think about this Lent. - DJ
Sunday, March 6, 2011
Pastor’s Column March 6, 2011
The Bible is the story of God’s involvement in human history, as well as the story of God’s people’s response in faith. The Bible tells us how God has moved with Israel, and then with the church, toward the kingdom of God, the fullness of God’s rule over humankind and earth.
It is the story of the one God, whose nature is best described as Father, the one who values each and every human being, his children, and who provides for our needs. It is the story of the one God, who reveals his nature in Jesus Christ. It is the story of the one God who is active in our world now as the Holy Spirit.
The story in the Bible is still unfolding in our lives and in our world. By faith we remember what God has done for our wellbeing, as well as what God demands of us. By faith we are heirs of the hope that fills the Bible from cover to cover. -DJ.
Sunday, February 27, 2011
Pastor's Column Feb. 27, 2011
March 8. Fat Tuesday or Mardi Gras, the last day of feast and frolic before the Lenten season. If you find yourself in New Orleans, tomorrow morning it’s time to head home.
March 9. Ash Wednesday - the name comes from the Old Testament, “sackcloth and ashes” - the first day of Lent. No service at Grace. Lent consists of the 40 days and 6 Sundays ending Saturday noon prior to Easter. The name comes from the old English “lencten,” which means “lengthening” of the days of spring. The mood of Lent is discipline, perhaps doing something positive rather than doing without something. The color is violet.
March 13. First Sunday of Lent. Communion. What are you giving up or taking up?
March 27. Ministerial Alliance Lenten service held at Grace Sunday evening. Terry Crank of…
April 10. Symbols of Easter at the end of the morning worship service.
April 17. Chancel Choir Contata, “Whispers of …
April 21. Maundy Thursday seder service for families and children in Fellowship Hall. Eat before you come. We will have the elements of Jesus last supper with his disciples, but it’s not enough to make a meal.
April 24. Easter, the holiest day of the Christian year! Due to declining attendance at the early service, Grace will have only one service, 10:45.
May 8. The Grace Youth Group will be in charge of the service in Rev. Johnson’s absence. It will be a contemporary music/style format. Children and youth, bring your moms on her day! - DJ
Monday, February 21, 2011
Pastor's Column Feb. 21, 2011
- Amen. The only part of a prayer that everyone knows.
- Choir. A group of people who singing allows the rest of the congregation to lip-synch.
- Incense. Holy smoke.
- Jonah. The G-Rated version of “Jaws”.
- Justice. When your kids have kids of their own.
- Magi. The first three men to ever attend a baby shower.
- Pew. A medieval torture device still found in some churches.
- Ushers. The only people in church who don’t know the seating capacity of a pew.
- Mercy. What worshipers give one another by turning off their cell-phones.
- Manger. Where Mary gave birth to Jesus because Joseph had no medical insurance.
- Ten Commandments. The most important Top Ten List not given by David Letterman. Also more important than any of the lists he gives.
- Religious relic. A person who has been going to church for so long that he/she knows all the responses. -DJ
Monday, February 14, 2011
Pastor’s Column February 13, 2011
We desire to make a difference. We long to leave a legacy. Our passion is to know that we’re fulfilling the purpose for which we are here. If we don’t satisfy this deep longing, we can live “lives of quiet desperation.”
In an early draft of Dostoevsky’s The Brother’s Karamazov, the Inquisitor gives this account of what happens to the human soul when it doubts its purpose: “For the secret of man’s being is not only to live… but to live for something definite.”
For us Christians, this something definite is God’s calling. Our purpose can be found only when we discover the specific purpose for which we were created and to which we are called. Answering the call of our Creator is the “ultimate why” for living, the highest source of purpose in human existence.
Many Christians think only of pastors as being “called.” Not so. When Jesus says, “Follow me,” he’s inviting everyone, not just professional church workers, to join in a way of life in which “everything we do, and everything we have is invested with a special devotion and energy.”
We’ll be looking at God’s calling and what this means to us in coming weeks. - DJ
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
PASTOR'S COLUMN Feb. 5, 2011
• Our plans plus our power = Humanism
• Our plans plus God’s power = Religion (at its worst)
• God’s purpose plus God’s power = Following Jesus
It is easy to fall into the pattern of seeking God’s power to help with our plans (religion at its worst). How might we avoid this trap and follow Jesus instead? By remembering that God is always ahead of us, never behind us. We don’t tell God what to do but ask what God wants us to do. A healthy human life always begins with prayer. What is God’s purpose for my life? How will God’s grace empower me to fulfill his purpose?
A three-year-old was told by her parents that God was sending her a baby sister. Months later when the three-year-old was introduced to her newborn sibling, she said, “Hi, there, baby sister! Tell me what God is like because I’m forgetting.” Not only do we forget what God is like, but we forget the basic ordering of life. God leads, we follow. Prayer is part of how we know where God is leading, but there is more. Beginning next Sunday we will begin a series of sermons titled, God’s Guidance in a World That’s All OverThe Place.
We will be looking at a variety of issues. How involved should we be when it comes to determining God’s will for our lives? Can we over-analyze what God wants of us? Does God guide us to what we want or what we need? Do we just talk, talk, talk in our prayers, or do we actually listen for God’s voice? Does God have more of a purpose for our lives than a detailed plan for our lives?
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Pastor's Column Jan 30, 2011
I have a wonderful study in the basement of my home in Festus. It allows me to get started on sermons and bulletins and newsletters early in the morning, as well as finish up the work day at night. I keep most everything I value in my study because I have not had a good experience with churches.
At First Presbyterian Church, Galveston, I arrived one morning to find the outline of a body in yellow tape on the asphalt of the street in front of the sanctuary. A man had shot his estranged wife less than two hours before I drove up. To keep people from wandering in, some of them dangerous, FPC had to keep all doors to the building locked during the work week.
We had just moved into our new building at Cristo del Valle. It was our first Sunday. After the service was concluded, two men came in wanting to look at our facility, saying that they had watched it going up. The next morning our sound system was gone. After a spaghetti supper, someone took a pipe torch to our safe and stole the proceeds. My office was ransacked at times by persons looking for anything of value.
Shortly after we moved into the new building at Sandia, a late-nite visitor sat in a car outside the big sanctuary window and shot six rounds from a handgun into the sanctuary. I found slugs lying on pew chairs and several imbedded in the sanctuary door. Shortly after that, someone took a crowbar and beat down the glass entry doors. They left a note saying, “Churches shouldn’t be locked.”
As time passed someone stole the offering after the early service. Anything that wasn’t locked up or nailed down tended to disappear during the week. Cars were broken into in the parking lot on Sunday.
It is a shame that churches have to be locked up during the week. But no less than is the case with other institutions, valuables are stolen, rooms vandalized, and staff attacked, even murdered. I remember the first new church development conference I ever attended. A pastor in attendance told me that a few weeks earlier two armed men came in while the choir at his church was practicing. They robbed the choir at gunpoint. Now that I think about it, one night choir practice at Sandia was shattered by a gang of kids who were shooting out the back windows of vehicles with sling shots and ball bearings.
Jesus said, “Be as wise as serpents and innocent as doves.” -DJ
Sunday, January 23, 2011
Pastor's Column Jan. 23, 2011
Reah served as our guide. Her Italian is sufficient. Since most all Italian names end in a vowel, wherever we went people thought of us as an Italian family – Dewey, Cheri, and Reah. My Italian improved to the point that whenever we went into a shop I could say, “Ciao now, brown cow!”
We spent most of our time in Milano. Reah’s apartment is a 25-minute walk to the bank, which is in a financial plaza just around the corner from La Scala Opera House, around another corner from the Galleria, and around yet another from the Duomo, the third largest cathedral in the world – 40,000 standing capacity. It’s a pretty exciting neighborhood!
Milan presently is the fashion capital of the world. Gucci, Prada, Armani, Versace, Fruit of the Loom, and Big Mac Overalls are headquartered there.
A group of monks certainly ate in style at one time in Milan. On the back wall of the refectory is Leonardo Da Vinci’s “The Last Supper,” and on the front is Donato’s “Crucifixion.” Cheri and I spent a couple of hours walking through the Milan Cemetery, which is included in movies such as the recent I am Love. The family mausoleums there are like nothing I’ve ever seen.
The trains ran on time when we went to Florence and Venice. In Florence we saw another Duomo, went through the Uffizzi Museum, and walked along the bridges across the Arno. In Venice we saw St. Mark’s, the Doge’s Palace, and rode the water shuttle back to our hotel.
Mussolini was largely responsible for the train station in Milan. 500 trains shuttle 320,000 passengers daily. There is a tile mosaic of Italian heroes on one wall. After Mussolini’s death, the Milanese had the tiles with his head on them taken down, leaving a blank expression on his face.
Through it all we walked and ate. Cheri’s only complaint was that Italians don’t drink enough coffee – teeny cups of expresso. Reah has a dog, Tali’Zucha, which is “Come here, little girl,” in Arabic. (The last time we visited her abroad was in Bahrain.) When Reah isn’t walking to work, she’s walking her dog in either of two fantastic parks. On Epiphany Day, Jan. 6, we ate dinner at an Indian restaurant due to most Italian restaurants being closed. Reah’s ordering Indian food in Italian next to a table speaking German was proof that we weren’t in Kansas anymore. We flew home the next day. The Alps in the morning sunlight were beautiful! –DJ
Sunday, January 16, 2011
Pastor’s Column Jan 13, 2011
Neighbor, Wayne Smith told the Journal that on Saturday the Loughners had returned home from shopping in their white Chevy truck to find sheriffs' cars at the house and deputies stringing crime scene tape around the area. Smith had seen the news on television and went across to tell them that their son, Jared, was the suspect.
"She almost passed out right there," Smith told the Journal. "He sat in the road with the tape up and cried."
"They're hurting real bad.
They are devastated," he added.
Smith, 70, who was asked by Randy Loughner to bring in their mail Monday, told the Journal that Amy Loughner was having a "nervous breakdown." – MSN Webpage
There is no shortage of suffering is there? Not only the victims of the shooting, but the parents of the shooter. They are devastated to find out that their son has done such a thing. Time after time, from Columbine to Virginia Tech to Arizona, this is the case. It is also the case with suicide. Those who commit suicide may end their pain, but it only begins for their loved ones. - DJ